Affirming and Praising to Support Showing
When we affirm and praise, we choose what to nurture. For example, Sydni was a first-grade teacher who listened carefully to student responses and used those responses to build students’ understanding. When I mentioned this to Sydni, she smiled shyly and was humbly pleased, but surprised! My comments affirmed something she was doing but unaware of. By shining a spotlight on things novice teachers do well, we build their confidence and encourage more of the same.
Teachers may not be aware of their own strengths. This can happen because of an inclination to focus on what isn’t working. Coaches, too, have this tendency because our work is focused on improvement. But focusing on weaknesses is relatively ineffective. Instead, we can look with kind eyes for positive features to affirm. As you find practices to celebrate and discuss them with novice teachers, your affirmations can help them reframe their own experiences in a more positive light. They can press into their strengths. The energy novice teachers gain from affirmations and praise helps them move forward productively.
Coaches support novice teachers to increase what they know, stretch their understanding, and show instructional improvement.
*I am borrowing these verbs from Susan H. Porter, who used them in a spiritual context.
Strategies to reduce student procrastination:
https://www.edutopia.org/article/supporting-students-not-track-pass
Enhancing critical reading skills:
https://www.middleweb.com/50526/5-questions-to-help-kids-become-critical-readers/
Lesson idea for poems about objects (National Poetry Month continues!):
http://www.readwritethink.org/classroom-resources/lesson-plans/color-silence-sensory-imagery-1104.html?tab=4#tabs
DIY place-value cups (I love these manipulatives!):
http://suedowning.blogspot.com/2012/08/place-value-cups.html
I’ve always thought we should have mentors, not just mentor texts, for our writing, and this post gives some great suggestions for making that happen:
https://choiceliteracy.com/article/mentors-for-process-and-habits/
That’s it for this week. Happy Coaching!
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are a few general questions to guide reflection after teaching: