Saturday, February 1, 2020

Don’t Compare, Connect!


I’m a proponent of giving teachers the opportunity to get into each other’s classrooms.  Structures like lab visits and lesson study  create an open culture for sharing.  However, sometimes sharing leads to comparing, and that can be toxic.

Problems with Comparison

Perhaps it’s human nature to compare ourselves to others.  Comparison seems to give us a yardstick for how we are doing.  However, no two situations are the same.  Schools are complex environments that don’t create level playing fields.  Teachers may beat themselves up for not working hard enough if they compare themselves unfavorably to others, even when hard work couldn’t make up the difference.  

Comparison is unhealthy when it’s a self-to-other comparison.  Even if a teacher compares and finds herself the “better” teacher, no one wins.  Mental arithmetic that pits teacher against teacher using comparatives and superlatives depletes teams of the energy needed for their joint work.  Better, best, worse, and worst are energy-draining words that create a demoralizing contest.

Comparisons turn allies into rivals.  When teachers use other teachers as benchmarks to evaluate themselves, it’s hard to avoid envy and to celebrate and learn from the good others do. 

Healthier Comparisons

If comparisons come up in one-on-one coaching sessions, it can be helpful to initially redirect a conversation to strengths and successes. It’s impossible to be best at everything, but everyone has teaching talents and past successes that can be remembered.  Specific affirmations (that don’t compare to others) can help a comparing conversation take a more constructive course.  What we’re good at can lead to appropriate goals.

Reflecting on practices within one’s own teaching can lead to helpful targets for improvement.  Helping teachers focus on one instructional feature in past, present, and future lessons is a healthy comparison.  When teachers thoughtfully compete against their past selves, they are likely to win – and wins are measured in instructional improvement, not personal attributes.  Having a clear idea of what they have been doing, what they are now doing, and what they hope to do can help teachers take realistic steps toward reaching their goals.

How Connections Help

So what is the role of peer observation and collaboration?  How can we invite teachers to connect without promoting unhealthy comparison? 

One benefit of observation is the new perspective provided.  When a teacher determines a very narrow focus for observation, watching becomes an exercise in learning about a practice rather than making unhelpful personal comparisons.  Your comments as a coach can encourage teachers to be observant and thoughtful rather than judgmental. 

When meeting with a teaching team, we can encourage this kind of helpful conversation by modeling concrete descriptions of what was observed. Although you will sometimes talk about what you saw and heard the teacher do, it can be helpful to focus on students’ responses (rather than what the teacher was doing) during a post-observation conversation.  Insights about how students responded to the lesson will guide instructional improvement.

Encouraging teachers to ask one another for recommendations sends a message that we are all in this together.  When teachers move from self-comparison to connection, everyone benefits. As success builds on success, teachers can achieve their individual instructional goals.  Colleagues who support one another create ongoing upward movement.  Teacher collaboration is an example of the Quaker proverb: “Thee lift me and I’ll lift thee and we’ll ascend together.”

This week, you might want to take a look at:

Books and ideas about bravery:



Lots of great tips for promoting your coaching role:



Evaluating tasks for higher-order thinking (read or listen here):



Are teachers you work with struggling with negative emotions?  Here’s some constructive support:



Tips for Peaceful Classrooms:


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This week we started a Facebook group study of my book, Collaborative Lesson Study.  For a free, downloadable Quickstart Guide to Lesson Study and an invitation to join the closed Facebook group, go here.  Each week between now and March 27 we’ll discuss one chapter (and I’ll add a quick video).  Read or comment as much or as little as you’d like.  


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That’s all for this week.  Happy Coaching!

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