Friday, January 4, 2019

Wait Time


There’s a wise Quaker saying that applies to coaching: “Never miss an opportunity to keep your mouth shut.”

You know about wait time – you’re a pro at it with kids. The next time you’re coaching, do a self-check on how you do with teachers.

After asking a question, give teachers the gift of time and receptivity. Sit down. Make eye contact.  Don’t appear rushed or make the teacher feel rushed. When they pause, don’t be quick to give a response.  Instead, ask them to, “Say more about that.” Or say, “Yes, go on.”  Or just pause and offer silence.

It sounds easy, but listening and waiting can be hard work!  As we give our attention to teachers’ thinking, we give them space to reflect. We give them space to wonder. We give them space to generate new ideas.

After the teacher has had a chance to think things through, enter in and reflect back what you heard.  Paraphrase those new ideas. Restate what they seem interested in or excited about.

It can be hard work to keep your mouth shut – but the coaching rewards are worth it!


This week, you might want to take a look at:

A 10-minute podcast about creating meaningful learning experiences (for teachers and students):



Questions worth considering about coaching ethics:



When reading response becomes a task:



Giving students checklists to keep them focused:



Ways students can use Pinterest in the classroom:


That’s it for this week.  Happy Coaching!

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