Friday, April 28, 2017

A Drop of Praise

Contrast has a way of emphasizing the truth.  Today as I was listening to the woes of a young teacher who’s been chased out of the profession by stress and negativism, it brought into clearer focus what I’d heard earlier in the week about praise.  Let me tell you stories from both sides of the praise experience.

Samantha was a third-year middle-school teacher with a mind for not only trivia but also big ideas – a combination that served her well as a US History teacher.  She survived the first-year experience only a little ruffled and had a solid second year, but during her third year in the classroom, Sam faced blame-and-shame from her principal.  After test scores came back, much lower than expected, the principal didn’t listen to her explanation of the scoring change that had impacted scores throughout the district.  She didn’t listen to concerns that were school-wide about this particular group of eighth-grade students.  Instead, she took away Samantha’s extracurricular (coaching the drama club), because: “We do that with students when they aren’t passing. Shouldn’t we do that with you?” She sent Samantha to a classroom management inservice, figuring that would help get the desired boost in test scores.  Samantha felt disempowered, and her desire to continue the work diminished.  “I still loved the kids and loved my team,” she said, “but the principal made it unbearable.”  She quit.

That conversation brings into stark relief a meeting I had Thursday with a group of elementary teachers. As they reflected on the power of praise, they reminisced about a favorite principal.  “She was in our rooms so much, sometimes we didn’t even notice she was there,” they said.  “Then we’d find a note in our box pointing out something we’d done well.”  “It made me want to try harder,” a teacher said.  “I wanted to be as good as she thought I was,” said another.  Praise motivated these teachers to try harder and be better.  It lifted them and encouraged them to keep going, even when the going got hard.

It’s that time of year when stamina runs low.  If achievement tests aren’t zapping your energy, students’ spring fever is.  In some parts of the country, May marks the beginning of the end of the school year.  We could all use the boost that praise provides.  As these final weeks roll around, I’m going to try to be a bucket filler whenever I can.  Whether it’s a quick comment in the hall, a note in the mailbox, or an email sent at the end of the day, a drop of praise can make a big difference in the life of a teacher.

This week, you might want to take a look at:

Pool noodle fractions (great dollar-store manipulatives!):



Leftovers from National Poetry Month - 10 poetry ideas for middle school students (adaptable!):



Movie making and the literacy connection:



Effective book talks: Advise from students:



Spotlight on English Language Learners:



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