Saturday, December 23, 2017

Coaching with Curiosity

“The important thing is not to stop questioning.”    –Albert Einstein

Asking questions is a powerful coaching tool for gathering information, engaging others in discussion, clarifying perspectives, and facilitating self-discovery.  By asking questions, coaches encourage the teachers they are working with to flesh out their own objectives and search for answers.

An important attribute of powerful questions is curiosity.  When coaches ask with genuine curiosity, we communicate respect and show faith in the teacher because we demonstrate that we value what she has to say.  It can be hard to pull away from our own knowledge and experience enough to ask an authentic question.  We have to mentally set aside the answer we would give enough to care about the teacher’s response.  We don’t just care because it tells us what the teacher knows or doesn’t know.  We care because we recognize that the teacher knows her students and her objectives better than we possibly could, and because of this, she will offer insights that we might not have considered. 

So, we offer up questions and wait patiently for authentic answers.  This takes faith on the part of the teacher, too.  Faith that we are not just fishing for the answer we want to hear, and faith that she does have something to offer to the conversation.  It also takes silence, leaving room for the teacher to say her part.  Silence allows time for the teacher to process both our question and her answer. It means not rushing in to fill the quiet with speech of our own, and not leading the teacher to the answer we want to hear.  You’ve seen teachers do this with students.  Check yourself to make sure you are not falling into this bated trap.

Listening is critical.  Often the next question is provided by the teacher’s answer, if one listens closely.  We will probably find a follow-up question If we listen carefully to a teacher’s responses when we ask:

·         What does that look like to you…..(after a teacher says she wants students to be able to show their thinking, for example)

·         Has there been a time when….(a student has clearly described their problem-solving process?).

·         What about “X” is important to you? (when reviewing the exit tickets from a lesson, for example).

Asking with genuine curiosity encourages a teacher to offer sincere responses and communicates that the teacher’s words matter.  We demonstrate that their words count.  Asking with curiosity raises the quality of the conversation and the learning that takes place during a coaching conversation.


This week, you might want to take a look at:

Aim high!  If your students will be setting New Year’s goals, you might want to inspire them with this:



Resources for fighting fake news:



3 Strategies to make note-taking interactive:



Ideas for talking about math (share with parents or use yourself!).  Ages 1-9 or so; age filters on the right. Lots to explore here!



Start a lesson or reclaim students’ attention with the Stand Up Game:


That’s it for this week.  Happy Holidays!


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