Pain Points
On a recent hike, I felt a pain in my heel each time I stepped
forward. I was with a group and didn’t want to step off the trail, so for a
while, I just kept going. But the pain was persistent and worsening, so I
eventually stopped, sat on a rock, and took off my shoe to investigate.
Unsurprisingly, there was a tiny thorn in my shoe. When I dumped my shoe and
put it back on, there was no more stabbing in my heel.
Like finding the thorn in my shoe, getting to the root of a teaching pain
point can offer relief. It can also be a springboard for growth. Pain is an
opportunity to assess our current status and our potential for growth. It can
be a catalyst for change. Coaches can help teachers take the time to
acknowledge pain points, analyze them, figure out where the pain is coming
from, and find solutions.
Getting at the root cause of a problem makes us wiser and more
able to navigate future difficulties. Oftentimes, when we dive deep, we find a
surprising undercurrent that leads to insight. I’ve lost track of the number of
times a painful classroom management event led to coaching opportunities. At
the root, we discovered lack of student engagement, so we planned opportunities
for more-meaningful instruction: collaboration, discussion, hands-on
activities, etc.
If we panic and run around trying to put out fires (addressing
the symptom rather than the cause), the problem persists. But challenges, when
examined, can sharpen knowledge, performance, and the future ability to address
difficult situations. Out of struggle we can forge strength. Pain can be a path
to progress. We’ve all experienced growing pain.
Praise Points
Thankfully, pain is not the only path toward growth! Praise can
also foster progress. By offering praise, coaches utilize a
strengths-based approach.
“Praise is like sunlight to warm the human
spirit: we cannot flower and grow without it,” said psychologist Jess Lair.
Specific
praise reinforces the use of effective teaching strategies. A teacher who
hears, “The way you focused students on the learning objective and included
self-assessment was outstanding!” is likely to intentionally include these
practices as an ongoing part of his instruction.
When
coaches praise, they shine a spotlight on things teachers do well, building
their confidence and encouraging more of the same. What gets
praised gets carried on. A coach I was talking with commented,
“Praise gave her the recognition she needed to know what to continue.” Specific
praise helps teachers determine what to hang on to. What
we appreciate increases!
Specific,
authentic praise also creates positive energy, broadens thinking, expands
awareness, builds resilience, and bolsters self-efficacy. Self-efficacy
supports resourceful problem-solving as teachers look for creative solutions to
help students grow. As one teacher explained, “Praise gets me searching for new
and innovative things on my own.”
Pain
Points and Praise Points
When
coaches dig deep with teachers to get at the root of challenging situations,
they foster ongoing growth. It seems ironic, but shining a light on successes
can do the same. Being attuned to a teacher’s experiences, noticing how she
responds to the experiences, and reflecting on your past successes with that
teacher will help you navigate the path forward.
This
week, you might want to take a look at:
Opening
and closing routines:
https://www.edutopia.org/article/14-effective-opening-and-closing-routines-for-teachers/
What neuroscience does (and does not) tell us about teaching reading:
https://www.shanahanonliteracy.com/blog/what-does-brain-science-have-to-say-about-teaching-reading-does-it-matter
Making turn-and-talk more effective:
https://choiceliteracy.com/article/turn-and-talk-then-what/
The Collective Efficacy Cycle for teacher PD:
https://www.k12dive.com/spons/the-5-steps-of-a-collective-efficacy-cycle/650710/
Who are the quiet powerhouses in your classroom? Check out this Ted talk about the power of introverts for ideas:
https://www.ted.com/talks/susan_cain_the_power_of_introverts
That’s it for this week – Happy Coaching!
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Want more coaching tips? Check out my book, Differentiated Mentoring & Coaching in Education: From Preservice Teacher to Expert Practitioner, available from Teachers College Press! I’m so excited to share it with you! TODAY you can still use the code: FEB2024 for 20% off. Click here and I’ll email you the free Book Group Study Guide that includes questions, prompts, and activities you can use as you share the book with colleagues. I hope you’ll love this book as much as I loved making it for you!
https://www.edutopia.org/article/14-effective-opening-and-closing-routines-for-teachers/
What neuroscience does (and does not) tell us about teaching reading:
https://www.shanahanonliteracy.com/blog/what-does-brain-science-have-to-say-about-teaching-reading-does-it-matter
Making turn-and-talk more effective:
https://choiceliteracy.com/article/turn-and-talk-then-what/
The Collective Efficacy Cycle for teacher PD:
https://www.k12dive.com/spons/the-5-steps-of-a-collective-efficacy-cycle/650710/
Who are the quiet powerhouses in your classroom? Check out this Ted talk about the power of introverts for ideas:
https://www.ted.com/talks/susan_cain_the_power_of_introverts
That’s it for this week – Happy Coaching!
Was this helpful? Please share!
Want to know about new posts? Click “Follow” (bottom right)
Follow on Instagram @Vicki_Collet_Educator, on Facebook at: facebook.com/mycoachescouch and Twitter @vscollet for more coaching and teaching tips! You can also find me at VickiCollet.com
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Want more coaching tips? Check out my book, Differentiated Mentoring & Coaching in Education: From Preservice Teacher to Expert Practitioner, available from Teachers College Press! I’m so excited to share it with you! TODAY you can still use the code: FEB2024 for 20% off. Click here and I’ll email you the free Book Group Study Guide that includes questions, prompts, and activities you can use as you share the book with colleagues. I hope you’ll love this book as much as I loved making it for you!